My guest blogger this week is Pastor Tim Stevens. For more than 17 years Pastor Tim has been on staff with Granger Community Church. It has been a privilege to watch the church grow from a congregation of 350 meeting in a movie theater–to a world-impact ministry reaching more than 6,000 locally and tens of thousands around the world. Tim has loved writing since he was a child. And now, through his blog and several books, he has been able to combine his love for writing with his passion to help church leaders. You can access all of Tim’s resources at http://www.leadingsmart.com/tim-stevens
I first heard John Maxwell say this in 1993 in a small leadership conference in Anderson, Indiana. Nearly 20 years later, I couldn’t agree more.
Many of you are pastors, the top dog in your church. You’ve either started the church from scratch, or you’ve come into an existing ministry. You want your church to grow. You may be looking for ideas to give your church a jumpstart. Or perhaps you’ve implemented changes, and the church is starting to grow. Now you want to take it to the next level.
Here’s a startling fact: Many of the things you do to help a small church grow are the very things that will eventually kill the church if you continue doing them. That’s right. A senior pastor who wants nothing more than to see the church grow could, in fact, single-handedly kill its growth.
The entrepreneurial, challenge-driven, adrenaline-addicted personality of the start-up leader will sometimes drive away the very leaders he or she recruited after establishing and growing the organization. That’s because these kinds of leaders often won’t give up to go up. They hang on too tightly to the non-essentials.
I’ve seen Mark Beeson continually decide to give up stuff he loves in order to release the church for growth. It’s not a “once and for all” decision. He’s had to decide this again and again, week after week, year after year. To a lesser degree, I’ve also had to give up to go up, as the church has grown from 400 in one location to nearly 5,000 with multiple locations and ministries.
Here are some of the things you’ll have to give up in order to release your church to grow:
Give up doing to go up to leading. When a church is starting, the pastor does everything. If a pastor continues to hang on to tasks and fails to empower others, growth will be stifled.
Give up meeting with everyone to go up to priority-based relationships. A pastor of a small church has time for everyone. As the church grows, the pastor must be more selective. When the church is very large, the pastor should be spending nearly all of his or her time with staff and top volunteer leaders.
Give up going it alone to go up to team-based leadership. Doing tasks by yourself is usually easier. To give up a lone-ranger mentality, you have to believe in your heart that a team is stronger than the sum of its parts.
Give up pet projects to go up to valued-added ministry. Mark used to love to create the bulletin. He was good at it. He gave it up so he could focus on doing the things only he could do. I used to run the sound board. I did it well, and it fed my inner geek. But I gave it up to focus on what only I could do.
Give up micro details to go up to the macro vision. If you focus on the logo for the middle school ministry, the font on the men’s ministry brochure, and the way the receptionist answers the phone, you’ll go nuts. Use your leadership to keep the church focused on the goal. Continually recast vision for the mission.
Give up tight control to go up to empowering your leaders. If you point out everything you don’t like, you’ll create a team of people who are afraid to make a move without running it by you first. Then you’ll have a bottle-necked organization that can’t possibly sustain growth for the long haul. Constantly ask yourself, “Is this mission critical?” If not, leave it alone.
Give up personal preferences to go up to sustainable ministry. You don’t have to like everyone on the team. You don’t have to personally endorse every method used in every ministry of the church. Getting stuck on the unessential nuances of every ministry will make you a negative, fault-finding individual, and people won’t want to be on your team. If you concentrate on the church’s values and finding leaders you trust, you’ll create a ministry that will outlast you.
Too many pastors can’t give up to go up. They hang on to too much, their people aren’t making disciples, and they can’t figure out why. In other cases, pastors of big churches have hired staffs of automatons because the pastor still micromanages everything. Their churches continue to grow, but the growth won’t be sustainable when the leaders leave. These are not prevailing churches. They’re personality-driven inspiration stations.
I encourage you to give up to go up. Build a church around God’s purposes, not around your preferences or personality.
What experiences have you had with giving up to go up?
Your comments are appreciated.